Flashback 5 years: I walk outside to see L wearing a mixing bowl on his head. When I questioned him as to why his answer? “I wanted to ride my bike and couldn’t find my helmet.” Even at 3 years old he knew, no helmet, no bike.
The rule still applies to anyone at our house, always has, always will. Bike, scooters, skateboards, quads, basically anything that they sit or stand on with wheels. Even a snowboard, and skates, which don’t have wheels but still require helmets. I don’t care if you are moving 10 blocks or 10 feet. Your helmet is on your head.
Sadly this doesn’t seem to be the norm anymore. Nearly every day in the summer I see kids riding with no helmet. I’m not talking about older kids and teenagers. No, I am talking about kids L, and Big H’s ages, 8 and 6. Or even worse, Little H’s age, 3. This isn’t the kids’ decision, that is clearly the parents. I just don’t understand it. In Alberta, it is the LAW, at least on a bike; and more recently for everyone on an off-road vehicle or motorcycle.
Helmet Rules
A few summers ago we had what seemed like a constant battle at my parents’ house, she had picked up some used bikes for the boys to use at their house. Great. Except she didn’t get them helmets. – When I was growing up I wouldn’t have dared to not wear a helmet. If the fall didn’t kill me my parents certainly would have.- Every day the kids would be on them, and every day I was the bad guy telling them no they don’t have helmets on. I don’t care, I have to make my point the same rules apply everywhere not just at home.
They do finally have helmets, Big H is at least a size too big, and Little H has an oddly shaped head and is impossible to get a helmet sized properly on him, which is another battle I have been tackling while there. But luckily this year they are much more focused on the swings instead of their bikes.
Learning a Lesson
ATV helmets there isn’t even a little bit of a grey area. I worked at the Polaris dealership until a few years ago. The amount of kids that are allowed to ride without a helmet BLOWS MY MIND! My kids are not allowed to even ride their battery-powered quads without a helmet. If you let them ride one without a helmet they will want to ride them all. It just is easier for them to wear it always. This has never been an argument with our kids, it has just always been the case. When riding B and I always wear our helmets, monkey see monkey do right? However, Big H and L learned really fast a few years why they always wear a helmet. B was loading the side-by-side on the trailer going about 2 km/h and hit a rock. The result?
Stitches and a Harry Potter scar on his forehead. Imagine if he had been going regular riding speed. L now preaches helmet safety, because he doesn’t want to crack his head open like his daddy.
I’m not trying to come across preachy. To me, it is just common sense.
No Helmet, No Ride.
If you’re looking for more bike safety you can find it here or here. For more on ATV safety check out here. Or you know, use your head.
My husband loves riding his bike and I have to be ON HIM about wearing a helmet…he refuses to do so! My kids however will have no choice whatsoever. Safety first, always! Great post!
Totally agree with everything in this post. My kids, too, know that if they don’t have a helmet, they don’t ride ANYwhere! Non-negotiable! When my sister was just seven, she was riding her bike down our steep hill driveway and suffered a seizure during her descent down. She broke her wrist and all five fingers, but thank God she was wearing a helmet and that helmet literally saved her life.
This is such an important post. Bike safety often gets overlooked when it comes to little ones. Even I sometimes forget but it really should be a negotiable. Thank you for sharing.
yes, this is so important; and we emphasize this for our kids.. i
It is definitely safety first in our house. My 3 year old just got her first trike from her aunt for her birthday this weekend so our next mission is a Minnie helmet to match.
It is amazing to me how many adults I see on bikes in busy traffic, without a helmet, or biking with their kids. Be safe and be a good example!
Ugh i am not looking forward to this age.. my boy is very active and i know he will definitely ride and do so many adventures. Definitely no helmet no ride!