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How the Hell Do You Initiate a Threesome?

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We may earn commission from links on this page, but we only recommend products we love. You think you know what they'll be like or how you feel about them, but you can't totally know unless you've been there. Communication is more important than anything else you do the whole night. Negotiate safer sex, comfort levels with different sexual acts, and be present with everyone involved as much as possible.

Threesomes hold something of a fabled allure in our collective sexual imagination. Adding an extra amount to a sexual encounter is hot as hell for a few number of reasons, not slight of which is just the sheer visual and physical sensory overload that comes with it. Popular as the fantasy capacity be, research suggests the IRL experience is more of a mixed bag. In practice, threesomes are actually not that coarse. For monogamous couples, on the other hand, threesomes might be the single exception to the rule of exclusivity—and experimenting along with it might involve some astonishing emotional turbulence along the approach.

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